Yes, yes!! I am so happy to have so recently discovered this…and other people writing about it, giving words to what I’ve only dimly perceived.

Personally I would much rather read about real life sex than boring porn scenarios.

Next, I remember reading about a study a few years ago that at least inadvertently revealed that when women can answer questions about sex anonymously their answers tend to be a lot more complete than if they felt they were under observation. (When I say it may have been inadvertent I mean I’m not sure the researchers were probing for those results.)

Anyway, to that extent I think the advent of blogging, with its combination of relatively strong anonymity with possibly wide readership really does make a difference.

Finally, I’m really happy that you’re doing what you’re doing. Like Ell and too many other people it’s extremely tedious trying to find people making porn anyone with a brain could reasonably enjoy. I still think there’s at least a solid handful out there, but with somewhere from a hundred thousand and a million nominal sex sites in the world (estimates vary radically and most of these are dead and/or referrer sites) they’re harder to find than pearls in the landfill behind a seafood factory.

Yes, yes, yes!! Women’s sexblogs have huge radical potential because they–finally!—give each woman a place where she can speak her own truths in her own voice, unfiltered and unedited by men or by social expectations or by cultural norms.

The phenomenon of women sexblogging is a huge force for change towards true sexual equality—which does NOT mean sexual sameness, but which DOES value and celebrate sexual expression in its countless forms.

I’m endlessly proud to be a small part of this revolution-in-progress.

DTG xxoo
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