ThisMarriageThing.com says yes!

Anyone who as seen a skin flick has laughed at ‘porn music’ at one time or another. You know, “boaw, chicka boaw, boaw”. Or, the moan track. Yikes, I need a shower just writing about it. That vibe, with all its stereotypes, is unappealing to me. The average adult film is so bad. I ‘ve actually fallen asleep from boredom. I wanted something with a plot that I could actually watch that also was hot. Enter Comstock Films. Here’s what they say about themselves:

Comstock Films offers award-winning erotic documentary films about real couples, having real sex. Our mission is to acknowledge the role of sex in human relationships, depict it graphically, and celebrate the power and joy of sexual pleasure and emotional intimacy.

They actually achieve their mission. They do celebrate and honor love. And, they are ‘Oprah-approved’. Comstock has been featured in national magazines like O, Women’s Health and Mens Fitness, all cite the film maker’s extraordinary commitment to making ‘real’ adult films. You can see that the couples are loving, have a connection and sex means more than a paycheck.
Comstock selection is limited (3 heterosexual and 2 same-sex) because it takes about a year to make each film. I ordered two of their films. We’ve enjoyed them both and will eventually get the third.

So what I was talking about when I said I saw some trends I didn’t understand is that about two years ago we started getting Google visitors on the search [real sex] and that was very good for our business. Visitors arriving on the search [real sex] were just as likely to return and ultimately just as likely to buy one of our DVDs as visitors arriving on the searches [comstock films] or [tony comstock].

What that means is we were catching and keeping customers who didn’t already know our name or our films. They were wandering the internet, looking for “real sex”, and when they wandered into our little corner they found something that was real enough to spend $28 on a DVD.

Then last December, it all went to shit. We and many other sexually oriented sites got caught in the gears Google’s ongoing fight against spam. Not only did we lose returns on [real sex], we lost returns on [comstock films] and nearly everything else. 

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Remember back when “unpublished” meant things that have never been published? Titles and blurbs from 23 blog posts still sulking around in draft-mode.

Building a Sustainable Definition of Success: Living the DIY Life
An essay/self-assessment about building a constellation of marketable skills that will get you through the lean times that are an inevitable part of being a professional artist.

Internet Rhetoric 101
A post of Canadian funny-man, and viral video genius Kirby Ferguson’ FAG BOMB.

Why You Can Thank Marc Wallice for Comstock Films
A recollection of how I arrived at my decision to depict real sex only with couples who were already intimate.

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